Alright, maybe Spider has done nothing wrong "legally" but I have had two specific experiences that have taught me not to take what people say so naively. The first happened while working my first job on a construction sight. A guy named "Dave" (name changed to protect the identity, not that it matters now anyway) told me on Friday that he couldn't take life anymore or its challenges and thought he would end it this weekend. Well, being 16 at the time I didn't take it to seriously and didn't tell anyone not even my Dad or brother (all worked on the same jobsite). Monday morning the foreman told us "Dave" ate a bullet over the weekend.
The second was a school buddy of mine I kept in contact with after highschool. He told me he didn't like a coworker and would like to beat him to death. Well, we were drinking beers at the time and I didn't take it to seriously. 2 weeks later my "buddy" is in jail awaiting trial for murder for beating a coworker to death with a baseball bat after work in the parking lot. I believe people say what they are really thinking about doing seeking intervention from anyone they can.