Im interested to see just how many people are in/ out of relationships currently. So I set up this poll to find it ou!.

I currently have a girlfriend who is my second, and I have been dating her for about 5 months now.

If you dont mind, fill out the poll and let us know!

Am very much in a relationship. Have been with tiff nearly 2 years (our anniversary is 06/06/06!)

Am getting married on 26/05/07 - Am in the process of booking a weeks honeymoon in the south of france oo la la!! We would lave to have a baby next year but it depends on jobs and money. If he will be a stay at home dad and i dont have to give up work then am all for it!!!

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(oddish182000 @ May 31 2006, 05:50 AM) [snapback]64552[/snapback]</div>Holy heck, but thats also the international day of slayer, AND apparently when satan comes to earth or something like that. Bah, bring him on!

Satan?? Where?? You guys hide me and if the big red guy comes past tell him i you didnt see me


I swear i havent done ANYTHING!!!!

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(oddish182000 @ May 30 2006, 08:50 PM) [snapback]64552[/snapback]</div>omg have u seen the omen thats when he was born that kid he s the anti-christ DUN DUN DUN!!!!!by the way the new omen film is coming out on your anniversary

Well, JDM and I will have been married a year on August 8. Our little man will be 1 on August 10th, We are also raiseing me two girls which are Kassandra who will be 13 Sept. 5th, and Kayla who will be 9 on June 27th. We have 3 dogs Otis-pug dash hound mix, Haley-Pomaranian, and new to the bunch Molly-Pure bred German Rottwiller, and we also have a cockatiel-Chip.

Yes, we have a houseful good thing we don't live on a farm!!!! I would have more animals than I'd know what to do with.

A little more on the together thing it will be 9years that we have been together on 11-17-06.

The clubbing thing is tops lethal - reminds me of my time stalking round the rock club in wigan! And you ALL know the cage dancing stories !!

in a relationship of 3 and a 1/2 months

I've been with my girlfriend a year and a couple of months now - my second "long term" relationship. We've got a holiday booked in a couple of months to Kos in Greece, which I shall enjoy!

Not always a smooth ride though, but with everything there's up sides and down sides!!

I do LOVE clubbing aswell though! Don't have to be sleeping around to like clubbing.

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(kickassmonk @ May 30 2006, 10:13 PM) [snapback]64581[/snapback]</div>Even my Probiotic drink & a Burger King Ketchup is in on the day, they suppose to expire 06.06.06, but I think when the devil comes up to the sunny earth I'll have an offering for him............................

......................... Jane that is!! Sod giving him my drink & ketchup as I like them alot

(do have photos on myspace of ketchup & will do the same for the drink as I've only got 2 left)

I'm in a relationship (or hell as us blokes calls it), know Jane for a while & together for 2 years, were off to Download 06 as an anniversary smootchy thing plus to see kickass bands as well.

Yup, I be an old married hag. Been married now for.. let's see... ... 13 1/2 years now! Our wedding anniversary is also the anniversary of the day we met. We got married exactly 1 year after the day we met. Things have been bumpy, but thankfully I see smoother road ahead!

I was married for nearly nine years until my wife was admitted to a Phsyciatric hospital to change and monitor her medication (Depression/Bipolar. She ended up taking off with some violent loser bloke whose ten years younger than herself. This happened two years ago and was a traumatic time for both our daughters and myself.

Since that event it's just me and my two daughters. Probably about time I start looking around.

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Digger065 @ Jun 1 2006, 11:09 AM) [snapback]64863[/snapback]</div>Wow, that is a pretty sad story Digger, hope that you find someone nice soon. I also hope that your daughters are ok. Best of luck mate!

Where is the 'in a relationship, but looking' catogry. . . . i mean erm. . . I'm in a relationship, have been with my girlfriend Emily for 7 months, but it feels like less as shes at uni, and so she's 100 miles away. Get to see her when ever i have 2 days off back to back, or when she pops home every 3 week ends or so, and we chat on msn, or the phone most days, and i normally have at least 3 text messages a day on the mobile. This is my 3rd long term relationship, and hopefully i can make this one last! Shes home form Uni next week, and will be home for 4 months, so it will be nice to see how we work when we can see each other all the time.
Oh and just for the record, my 1st long term relationship was a year and a half, if she was doing this poll, shes now married, and my second long term relationship wa a year and 9 months, shes now doing the sleeping around thing.

for now i am actually quite content on being single im working full time and going to school full time. I dont have the strength to handle a girl that wants me texting her at 3 am. But hey that could all change if miss right comes along but at 18 years old i doubt it.

Digger, I'm really sorry to hear that, that's just awfully painful!!! Are you ok!?!? Sounds like you are, and I'm glad to see that! How are your daughters??

Nuthin' but love for ya Darlin'!!!!!!!

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Speediebean @ Jun 2 2006, 01:04 PM) [snapback]64937[/snapback]</div>Thanks Speedie, at the time it was a totally sureal/bizzare set of events. My wife went into the Phsyc Hosp (voluntary admission) to change her medication over a couple of weeks because her anti deppressants were no longer working and she strikes up a relationship with another patient with violent tendancies because she wanted to be young again (wow that's a long sentance) ... I definatly didn't see this coming up. Stacks of bizarre threats and events follow suite from my wife for some time after. I immediatly changed the locks in our home and got as much legal advice as I could to protect my girls and myself from my now ex-wife and her new found boy friend and thier "carny folk" friends.

Both me and the girls are doing fine. My girls are actually alot better since my wife left as they have alot more confidence and not socially challenged as they were when my wife lived with us. It sucks the soul out of you, living with someone for so long not seeing any possitive light at the end of the tunnel and she had a negative effect on the girls. During the marriage I took up buddhist meditation as a means of clearing my own mind which is why I used to post a few philisophical type posts. Just a month after my wife left, my eldest daughter even spoke at the school assembly which is a un believable mile-stone for her to do that.

Lots of possitives happened when my wife left, my girls confidence "sky rocketed", I lost 12kgs (and haven't found the kg's it again ), I had a minor promotion at work which means I can work four days a week earning the same pay as I used too before the promotion. I usually go bushwalking (hiking) on my day off. Basically both me and the girls are healthier both mentally and physically and lead more active lifes.

Thats great to hear digger - im glad you found something positive to come out of your experiences!! And super glad your little ones are doing all the better for it too!!

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Digger065 @ Jun 2 2006, 06:45 PM) [snapback]64950[/snapback]</div>
Good stuff there Digger ! Good to hear success and positive out comes from a very hectic situation.

Similar situation my side..... Been divorced for 4 years now My x did the same thing, anti-depresants while drinking, dissapearing for times and comming home with serious Columbian flue, excetra, excetra. When I filed for divorce she cleaned up her act so I couldn't get custody of my kids (law favours the mother ) and as I had no proof couldn't win.

So the question at hand was difficult to vote..... Did the Clubbing, s#x or#ie thing straight after my divorce, was fun for a while but get's a bit shallow, tried dating, got bored with the peeps I dated cause I guess I'm to fussy, tried the single but looking which took me straight back to the clubbing scenario so at the moment I can say.........

I'm divorced and happily single, who knows tho, maybe some day I'll meet that goth n#mpho maniack supermodel I dream off.

Well i guess they dont call you shagger for nowt!!!